Zeke’s Story

Zeke, male, 23, United States. I think I had known I was asexual since before I had hit puberty, even though I did not have a word for what I was until I was well into my freshman year of college. It was during my time at university that I also came to realize I…

Pilar’s Story

Pilar, female, 22, Spain. I guess I’ve been like this all my life. During my childhood and early adolescence I didn’t even pay any attention to the subject of sex. It’s true that I’ve always felt different from other people, being shy, quiet and interested in completely different things, especially to the other girls. But…

My journey to identifying as asexual

Quinoa, female, 20, United States. When I was in middle school and much of high school, I didn’t really think I was that different. Sure, I didn’t date people, but I thought the people around me were dating and having sex mostly because of peer pressure. I didn’t want any part of dating or romance,…

Angus’ Story

Angus, 18, Canada. I came to realize that I was asexual in early December of 2013. The clearest indication of my asexuality came from my difference from other people around my age. A lot of people begin to fantasize about sex in their teenage years, and I was convinced about that quite easily. It seems…