On Being Invisibly Demisexual

purpleandgrey, 28, female, United States For the past few years, my story has primarily been about being invisibly ace. I’m a cisgender demisexual woman in a committed relationship with a cisgender sexual man. To all outward appearances, our relationship is indistinguishable from a normative heterosexual relationship. But this is the really strange part: to all…

I’m Not… Straight?

Casey, female, 21, United States. It wasn’t until I broke up with my boyfriend that I realized I may not be entirely heterosexual. I owe part of my self-discovery to the tumblr community. That’s where I learned that there were other sexualities and gender identities than just the two I knew, and it was simultaneously…

Megsblood’s Story

megsblood, female, United States.   Middle school, in a lot of ways, is worse than High School. You’re expected to know exactly who you are when a lot of issues are just being brought to your attention to think about. One of these was sexuality. Everyone already knew their label; straight, lesbian, bi. It wasn’t…